Should I Ask My Boss For a Raise? [entry-title permalink="0"]

Dear Tamara:

I have not received a raise or cost of living increase in three years. This year we were told that because of the economy annual increases are again, “not in the budget.” During this time the cost of living has greatly increased. My rent has gone up and my son’s daycare went from $150 to $180 a week. I really need a raise or some type of increase to continue to make ends meet. Should I ask for a raise? How should I approach my supervisor about getting a raise?

More Than a Dollar Short


Dear Dollar Short:

I think me and everyone else in America can agree with you that the “cost of living has greatly increased” over the last three years. Whether companies are increasing prices to cover their own increased coats or tightening their budgets to weather the storm, everything seems to cost just a little more. Unfortunately there are no laws that state that a company has to provide annual raises and/or cost of living increases to help deal with these increased prices

I am not sure about your work environment/culture, but I am accustomed to raises and increases being tied directly to performance. In all of the reasoning you listed above, you said nothing about your job, an outstanding performance appraisal, or you consistently exceeding expectations and going the extra mile on the job. If you are going to talk to your supervisor about a raise, I strongly suggest you go in prepared to justify a pay increase. In other words, have more in your arsenal than the fact that your living expenses have increased. Your employer may or may not care about your day care costs. And at the end of the day, day care costs and what you spend your weekly paycheck on is not their business! Protecting their bottom line, satisfying clients and making a profit is! You should be able to show why you deserve and increase and how the company can and will benefit by keeping you employed and increasing your salary.

It is your job to better manage your personal finances and stretch your paycheck to meet your needs. If you cannot do this with your current salary, you may want to consider getting a second job or looking for another job that pays you more or has higher pay potential.



Tamara Hartley is Your Advice Guru and author of REAL Advice from REAL Experience: Advice, Tips and Strategies for Your Life, Relationships, and Career. She uses her personal life experiences and lessons learned to give others a different perspective and help them make critical decisions in their life, relationships and careers. She is also a personal success coach and works with individuals to find balance, make moves, and live their dreams. Email questions to Follow Tamara on Twitter @DrTamaraHartley. Learn more about her coaching programs at